Relationships

In Cinders the player can start a relationship with some of the characters from the game.

To do this the player first has to obtain the Ring of Betrothal, and then talk with the choosen candidate.

Once proposed, a flirt option will unlock with that character. This option has three outcomes and is randomized upon resting at a bonfire. Getting a "good" outcome will reward the player with a unique gift, specific to that character.

Betrothal Candidates

Candidate	Gift	Type of Gift
Archdeacon McDonnell	Abyssal Fragment	Repeatable
Astrologer Lillian	Climax	One-time
Blacksmith Andre	Blunt Gem or Lethal Gem or Sharp Gem	Repeatable
Company Captain Yorshka	Hidden Blessing	Repeatable
Conjurator Ellie	Ritual Incense	Repeatable
Cornyx of the Great Swamp	Fire Seed	Repeatable
Crestfallen Merchant	Blunt Gem	Repeatable
Domhnall of Zena	Awestone	Repeatable
Erstwhile George	Awestone	Repeatable
Fire Keeper	Divine Blessing	Repeatable
Greirat of the Undead Settlement	Rusted Gold Coin or Cursed Tarnished Coin	Repeatable
Irina of Carim	Holy Fragment	Repeatable
Karla	Yearning Dregs	One-time
Ludleth of Courland	Exotic Souls	Repeatable
Magnum Ursus	Bear Set	One-time
Marvelous Chester	Lucky Gem	Repeatable
Occultist Grudore	Moonflower	Repeatable
Orbeck of Vinheim	Crystal Fragment	Repeatable
Remy the Rat	Dried Root	Repeatable
Rosaria, Mother of Rebirth	Brightbug	Repeatable
Shrine Handmaid	Ember	Repeatable
Solaire of Astora	Estus Shard	One-time
Unbreakable Patches	Undead Bone Shard	One-time
Yoel of Londor	Dark Sigil	Repeatable
Yuria of Londor	Repel	One-time

Spurned Shade will appear in Firelink Shrine after defeating Champion Gundyr. She will give the option to reclaim the Ring of Betrothal after defeating her in a duel.

Notes

• Repeatable gifts require to rest at a bonfire to receive them again.
• Starting the next playthrough after defeating Soul of Cinder or using the NG+ Giant Tree will reset the relationship status.
• The Fire Keeper is the only character with a special event from her 'Seduce' menu option after proposing to her.
• Proposing to Yoel of Londor enables an alternative questline for the Lord of Hollows ending (check his page for more information about it).
• It is possible to divorce a married character by talking to them and selecting the 'Divorce' option, but this will not return the Ring of Betrothal to the player.

Information here is accurate for version 2.12.